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Beads of sweat popped out on my forehead and bile rose in my throat when I realized that I am to write about relationships, and they were specific romantic relationships. My spirit guides chose the wrong human for this job. Twice divorced and not even in a current relationship, I was not equipped to tackle a topic like this. “We’ve got you,” they said, so Folks here goes!
I do not intend for this blog post to be about my romantic life or moreso, my lack of romantic life. I want it to be about energy and attraction.
Way back in science class, we learned about magnetism and the rule was that like poles repel and unlike poles attract, and in some relationships, from the outside looking in, it appears that this rule holds as well. We often say, “they are so different from each other, how did they get married and have stayed together for so long?” Perhaps this is a case of opposites attracting or better yet, we can say that these two persons were in vibrational alignment. They were vibrating at the same frequency and were able to come together as a perfect match.
I hear my female friends say all the time, “I cannot find a good man, it seems that I always attract bums and losers” and I say to them it is because the vibrational frequency we give off draws these so-called bums and losers to us. We cannot attract what we are not ourselves. In other words, we cannot attract the perfect loving man when we ourselves are not somewhat perfect and loving. We attract bums and losers because we are bums and losers. This may sound harsh and I can already feel the condemnation ringing out but let’s think about it. We produce and emit a vibrational frequency, like pheromones that say, “I do not love myself, I do not feel that I am worthy to be in a beautiful relationship, I have daddy issues, I do not trust men, I hate people who are in wonderful relationships, I feel that I have to have a man or a woman to be complete, so choose me, because we are a match” and so here comes Mr. Bum or Ms. Loser.
And the opposite is true when we love ourselves and others, when we feel worthy of the best, when we acknowledge and accept that we are perfect and whole without a romantic companion, when we understand that we do not have to settle for less, when we are not desperately seeking, trying to find the person who will give us that child, or that sense of well-being or that social status, we vibrate on a different frequency. Bums and Losers are not tuned into our frequency so they will pass us by, looking for their vibrational match.
It took me a while to understand this myself, that I attract what I am a vibrational match for. So therefore I had to raise my vibration and switch my frequency. It was not easy and I am not even completely switched over since every once in a while, when my vibrations are low, I bump into a bum.
But I encourage us all, and together as we continue to raise our vibrations and connect with our Higher Selves, we come to understand that our vibrational match is out there somewhere and the higher we vibe, the easier we will find our tribe.
